Despedida

This weekend I went up to Inharrime to visit Erin and participate in her despedida (going away party). For the party, Erin arranged 25 chickens (maybe more), french fries, potato salad, normal salad, rice, chema, beans (made into a soup-like sauce with veggies, served over rice or chema- also, one of my favorite dishes), 300 beers, and 100 soft drinks, enough food for 100 people. I arrived Friday night and we spent from 6:30am Saturday until people started arriving around 5pm peeling potatoes, cutting onions, washing beans, creating music playlists, and making everything look beautiful and presentable. At one time I was cutting onions for the beans, then started cutting onions (in the same manner, thin strips) for salad and I has heavily reprimanded by one of Erin’s co-workers, “You can’t put onions that look like that into a salad! We can’t use those! They must be cut in complete circles.” Just one more way I will never understand Mozambicans. Anyways, the party went wonderfully. So many of Erin’s colleagues and friends from her town were there, as well as a few other PCVs. We ate, drank, danced, and mingled. Erin was given presents, hoisted up onto a chair and carried around above people’s heads (may I note, not something that should be done after consuming beers), and praised by all of her friends and co-workers for all the amazing thing she has done. I am so happy I was able to come visit for this! Part of me is jealous I never had a party like this, but the other part of me understands why not- I wasn’t able to build the same strong, solid bonds Erin was. For that I’m jealous.